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Asking Clarifying Questions

Collaborative Discussion Skills

Day 154of 180
Week 31of 36
30Minutes
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🎯 What You'll Learn

Learning Objectives

1

Learn the difference between clarifying and argumentative questions

2

Practice asking thoughtful questions that deepen understanding

3

Demonstrate respectful communication skills

📖 Scripture Connection

Proverbs 15:1

“A soft answer turns away wrath, but harsh words stir up anger.”

— Proverbs 15:1 (WEB)

Shows how thoughtful questions and gentle communication can help understanding

📦 Materials Needed

  • Discussion topic cards
  • Notebook
  • Pencils
  • Question stems chart
📚 Step-by-Step

Lesson Plan

1Opening (5 min)

Explain the difference between helpful questions that seek understanding and questions that challenge or argue

💭 Review Question: What makes a good question in a discussion?
2Teaching (10 min)

Demonstrate how to ask clarifying questions using respectful language and tone

📌 Key Talking Points:
  • Questions start with 'Can you help me understand...'
  • Use a curious, not confrontational tone
  • Focus on learning, not proving someone wrong
💬 Discussion Questions:
  • What makes a question helpful?
  • How can questions show we're listening?
  • Why is it important to ask questions kindly?
3Activity: Clarifying Questions Challenge (10 min)
role-play

Students practice asking clarifying questions in pairs about a given topic

📝 Instructions:
  1. Divide into pairs
  2. Each pair receives a discussion topic card
  3. Take turns sharing an opinion
  4. Partner asks at least two clarifying questions
  5. Switch roles
🔄 Variations:

Simpler: Use provided question stems

Challenge: Create original clarifying questions without stems

4Closing (5 min)

Reflect on how asking good questions helps us understand each other better

📝 Review Questions:
  • What did you learn about asking questions?
  • How can questions show respect?
  • Why is listening important in discussions?
🙏 Prayer:

Dear God, help us listen carefully and ask questions that show love and respect.

Coming up: Tomorrow we'll practice a full Socratic discussion

💎 Memory Verse

James 1:19

“So, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.”

— James 1:19 (WEB)

🎯 Activity: Question Verse Charades

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Teaching Notes

📚 Background:

Learning to ask thoughtful questions is crucial for effective communication

💡 Teaching Tips:
  • Model good questioning techniques at home
  • Encourage curiosity
  • Practice active listening
🤔 Common Struggles:

Children may default to argumentative or dismissive questions

👀 Signs of Understanding:

Genuine curiosity and respectful question-asking

🚀 Want More?

Extension Activities

  • Create a question stems poster for home
  • Practice clarifying questions during family discussions
  • Watch and discuss interview clips showing good questioning

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