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Good Listeners Use Their Ears and Eyes

Listening and Speaking with Respect

Day 86of 180
Week 18of 36
20Minutes
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Learning Objectives

1

Learn to make eye contact when someone is speaking

2

Practice active listening skills

3

Understand the importance of respectful listening

Proverbs 1:5

A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding will attain to wise counsel.

Proverbs 1:5 (WEB)

Shows the value of being a good listener and learning from others

📦 Materials Needed

  • Listening checklist
  • Small hand mirror
  • Storybook
  • Poster with listening guidelines

Lesson Plan

1Opening (5 min)

Gather students in a circle and explain that today we're learning how to be great listeners. Demonstrate good and poor listening by having a short conversation with exaggerated good and bad listening behaviors.

💭 Review Question: What does a good listener look like?
2Teaching (7 min)

Good listening is more than just hearing words. It means using our eyes and ears to pay attention to the speaker.

📌 Key Talking Points:
  • Look at the person speaking
  • Keep your body still
  • Think about what they're saying
  • Wait until they finish before speaking
💬 Discussion Questions:
  • How do you feel when someone doesn't listen to you?
  • What does good listening look like?
  • Why is listening important?
3Activity: Listening Mirror Check (6 min)
hands-on

Students practice listening skills using a small mirror to check their eye contact and body language.

📝 Instructions:
  1. Give each student a small mirror
  2. Have a partner read a short story
  3. Use mirror to check listening posture
  4. Switch roles and repeat
🔄 Variations:

Simpler: Teacher demonstrates proper listening first

Challenge: Students evaluate each other's listening skills

4Closing (2 min)

Review the key listening skills learned today

📝 Review Questions:
  • What makes a good listener?
  • Why is listening important?
  • How can listening show love to others?
🙏 Prayer:

Dear Jesus, help us to be good listeners and to show love by paying attention to others.

Coming up: Tomorrow we'll learn how to build on what others say in a discussion

James 1:19

So then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.

James 1:19 (WEB)

🎯 Activity: Listening Statue Game - Freeze when hearing the memory verse

Teaching Notes

📚 Background:

First graders are learning social communication skills and how to interact respectfully

💡 Teaching Tips:
  • Model good listening at home
  • Praise children when they listen well
  • Use gentle reminders about eye contact
🤔 Common Struggles:

Young children often get distracted or interrupt

👀 Signs of Understanding:

Consistent eye contact, body stillness, and appropriate responses

Extension Activities

  • Practice listening games at home
  • Create a family listening challenge
  • Read books about communication skills

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